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Ololade ✿'s avatar

this has so much depth. i for one never understood the concept of calling just anyone ‘love of my life’ and it so transcended to other words of endearment that i have found myself calling those i hold dear ‘my sweets’

names are birthed from stories, will be holding on to that for a whilee.

SeunCaleb's avatar

You get it !!!! I’m glad you enjoyed reading 😊

Toria Akunyili's avatar

I would say "awwwn" but that would do this no justice! This was a heart-warming read SC. Wherever your waffles is, I'm sure she knows that she bagged a gem! This is top-tier, witty, romantic and intellectual! all at the same time. 10/10

Nire Adetimehin's avatar

'The beauty of an endearment is entrenched in its incomprehensibility with the outside world.' This is so spot on. I never really liked the idea of generic names. I used to call my ex 'moon pie' and that was gotten from 'Young Sheldon-the series'—the love his grandmother had for him. The whole idea of endearing names is that no one understands them. This is such a great piece!

SeunCaleb's avatar

Nire !!! Thank you thank you 😊

Alexander's avatar

What are brilliant piece, I totally agree 🥂

Sisi Eko❤️'s avatar

Loved this so much! My heart 🥺❤️

SeunCaleb's avatar

Yay !!! I’m glad you did ❤️

Mo's avatar

Mine calls me “fine wine.”

And on a normal day, that’s already a high compliment in a society where “aging like fine wine” is one of the nicest things you can say about someone.

I was listening to this Substack while doing the dishes, grinning from ear to ear, because it transported me right back to several conversations I’ve had with my man.

Especially one from this past weekend.

We were doing what people in love do best: arguing over who loves the other more.

“I love you.”

“I love you more.”

“I love you much more.”

“I love you to eternity.”

“I love you to infinity.”

“I can’t even quantify how much I love you.”

I digress.

Mine calls me “fine wine.”

But for us, it means something much deeper than what the phrase usually means. It carries memories, context, history, and a meaning that belongs only to the two of us.

The words may be ordinary. The meaning rarely is.

Thanks for sharing "waffles' waffle".

SeunCaleb's avatar

Fine wine definitely has a ring to it. I do enjoy the fact that this took you down memory lane. Cheers to the one who loves you the most.

Itunu's avatar

This is really articulately written🥹, my own issue now is knighting my own version of waffles😭

SeunCaleb's avatar

Just grab anyone in church today

Eniola Ajiboye's avatar

Masterpiece 👏🏾👏🏾

SeunCaleb's avatar

Thank you ☺️

nini.'s avatar

this is so beautiful, Seun! 🥹

SeunCaleb's avatar

Thank you ☺️

SeunCaleb's avatar

Make that both of us

Akinkúnmi's avatar

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Akinkúnmi's avatar

So many digression. One whole paragraph in fact 💀

SeunCaleb's avatar

Lmao, if you behold the beauty you go understand